June 17, 2007

Marriage
Ephesians 5:22-33
 
-Marriage is defined by God
     ***marriage is between a man  and a woman
 
-Marriage works when Jesus Christ is #1 - Ephesians 5:18
 
-Marriage is forever -
 
-Marriage is awesome
 
-Marriage is the most important things in life after Jesus
 
 
                                                WHAT EVERY MAN OR HUSBAND NEEDS
 
 
 
(1) THE #1 NEED FOR EVERY MAN ON THE PLANET - ADMIRATION - 1 Peter 3:7
 
How to admire your husband.......
 
 
a.) verbally speak good things about him - publicly and privately
-be honest and genuine and do it daily
 
 
b.) appreciate him for how far he has come
 
 
c.) let him know there is a great future ahead
 
 
 
 
(2) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE - ! Corinthians 13:1-13
 
***we are to love just as Jesus Christ loves
 
 
a.) Unconditional love and acceptance helps a man feel safe
 
 
 
 
b.) Unconditional love and acceptance shows grace with his weaknesses
 
 
 
 
c.) Unconditional love and acceptance accepts him just the way he is
 
 
 
 
 
(3) FRIENDSHIP - John 15:1-15
 
 
What does a husband need in a friendship with his wife?
 
a.) Realistic Expectations
-men are all unfinished products
 
-we can still have an authentic spiritual life
 
-the Lord is looking for desire
 
 
 
 
b.) truth and genuineness -
-at the right time/in the right tone/in a teachable moment
 
 
c.) be forgiving
-Eph 4:32
 
d.) enter into his world
-validate his interests and join him/learn about his interests