June 24, 2007

Marriage - Ephesians 5:18-33
Paul Compares Marriage to Jesus Christ and the Church.............(v32)
 
             ***the husband is compared to Jesus Christ
 
             ***the wife is compared to the church
 
 
Husbands
 
v25 - HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES
 
agape - an unconditional love from God
 
a.) agape love never stops - God never quits loving us
 
b.) agape love is an aggressive love
 
 
Loving your wife is a command from God in this verse...
 
a.) it is not a feeling or an emotion
 
b.) it is not based on performance
 
 
c.) it is not based on looks
 
d.) it is the right thing to do
 
-ALWAYS DO THE RIGHT THING EVEN WHEN SOMEONE DOES THE WRONG THING
 
 
 
V26 - through Jesus Christ's love and grace, we are saved, protected, secure and provided for
-I would never leave Jesus....
 
 
 
v27 - the spots and wrinkles in our marriages will disappear through love
 
***love erases all past mistakes
 
***love discusses and prays through all issues immediately
 
***love covers all weaknesses
 
 
 
vs28-30 - when our bodies have needs, we meet them
             -v30 - when the church body has needs, Jesus meets them
 
             -husbands must meet the needs of their wives
 
 
v31 - leave your parents
 
-leave - means to abandon completely; leave behind
  
-join - means to superglue together
 
 
 
 
vs32-33,22-24 - wives are to submit to and respect their husbands
 
submit - means to arrange under his covering;to bring into order
 
respect - means to honor and highly regard and respect
 
 
Submission:
 
-is mutual submission
 
-is following God's will totally
    ***anything that is against the word of God does not have to be followed